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Rabbi's Note to TAA Community after Shooting at Tree of Life Synagogue

בָּרוּךְ דַּיַּן הָאֱמֶת

Blessed is the True Judge

עֵץ-חַיִּים הִיא לַמַּחֲזִיקִים בָּהּ, וְתֹמְכֶיהָ מְאֻשָּׁר

It is a tree of life to those who grasp onto it, and whoever holds on to it is happy. 

(Proverbs 3:18)

What do we do in the impossible moment when confronted by death, violence and horror?

The traditional Jewish response is to say: Baruch Dayan haEmet.  "Blessed is the true Judge."  It is a remarkable practice.  Reeling from shock and anguish, words often feel impossible. In that moment, our tradition puts words in our mouths, words affirming the world's coherence and justice - the opposite of what we are feeling.  Despite chaos, we affirm that reality is fundamentally ordered; despite appalling injustice, we affirm that the ultimate reality is justice;  despite cruelty, we affirm that the ultimate reality is love; despite the twisted lies and distortions, we affirm that the ultimate reality is truth - even if in the moment it is impossible to feel or to believe. 

After such a shattering, many of us have the impulse to flee to our own numbness, willful blindnesses, and protective narratives - anything we can do to not have to confront this horror as our new reality.  Self protection is natural and understandable, but from that place of retreat, healing can not happen. There can be no healing for us, and no healing for the brokenness in the world. To repair that brokenness we need each other.

The best thing we can do in the chaos of loss, is to come together for comfort and healing and, eventually, to be able to work to create a kinder world.  This need to join together for healing is reiterated with each death in the practice of shiva -- not to flee, but to sit in the new, shattered reality surrounded by comforters. 

The name of the synagogue where this atrocity occurred, Tree of Life (עֵץ-חַיִּים), comes from the verse in Proverbs quoted above, "It is a tree of life to those who grasp onto it, and whoever holds on to it is happy."  This tree-of-life is understood in our tradition to refer to the Torah - our source of wisdom and connection to God.  We sing this verse every time we return the Torah scroll to the ark.  We have a tree of life, the Torah and our tradition, if we can grasp onto it.  We have each other as a source of strength and healing, if we hold onto each other. 

May this awful shattering bring our Jewish community closer and strengthen our connections both to our tradition and to our neighbors who stand with us in grief and commitment to a world of greater justice, love and peace.

Our Hearts and Prayers are in Pittsburgh

After the tragic day in Jewish American history, here are several links you may be interested in:

The Tree of Life Synagogue website with information about donations directly to them.

Article by Anti-Defamation League (ADL) about how to talk to kids about violence and hatred.

The ADL website where you can sign a statement of unity #NeverIsNow and donate directly to ADL.
An article by Swampscott native, now Squirrel Hill resident, journalist David Shribman.

2018-2019 FALL-SPRING EVENTS

 

Friday,  November 16^th

A “Musical Tish” with Rabbi Lev Friedman

Tuesday, December 4th

Community Lobsta Trap Menorah Lighting

Saturday, December 8^th

Hanukkah Celebration

Monday, December 24^th

Movies and Chinese Food    

Friday, January 4^th, 2019

Musical Kabbalat Shabbat    

Sundays, February 3, 10 and 17th

Sunday afternoon movie series

Friday, March 1^st

Dinner and Musical Shabbat

Friday, May 3^rd

Dinner and Musical Shabbat